Love Boxes for Valentine’s Day

Every year for Valentine’s Day, I put together these adorable love boxes for my husband and daughter.

The boxes themselves are very inexpensive and can be used again year after year.

I buy things sporadically so I’m not paying a lot at one time. I find cute little things I know they will like. Luckily for me, both of my loves have a sweet tooth. So candy is always a must.

Mya is much easier to shop for then my husband. So for her beauty products are always a win. I knew there were a few things she wanted so I was able to grab those for her. For my husband, he practically lives in his truck for work, so I grabbed him some beef jerky and scratch offs. He also, just got a brand new Harley Davidson so I picked up some cute Harley things for him. I knew I couldn’t go wrong with that.

These boxes are so cute and personalized. I hope it shows that I love them and am always thinking of them.

I’ve linked the products used here.

Crafting is one of my favorite hobbies. I love sharing fun ideas with my followers. How cute are these???

If you make your own love boxes, tag me on Instagram @ambur.a.vance, I’d love to see what you put in yours!

As always, have fun with it and make it unique to your loves.

Xoxo,

Ambur

35 Winter Date Ideas

Living in Wisconsin, we spend most of our time trapped inside. The weather in the Midwest usually determines our plans.

My husband and I said that 2020 we were going to make more of an effort to spend quality time together. But planning anything with an unpredictable Mother Nature is hard. To help out I made a list of my top 35 Winter Date Ideas.

I tried to find things that were a mix of outside/inside and free/inexpensive. Pick out a few that you’d want to do and add them to your calendar. Do not cancel on yourself, make it a priority. You will not be disappointed, and will love making these memories.

35 Winter Date Ideas:

  1. Go ice skating.
  2. Cozy up for a Netflix & chill night.
  3. Visit the Ice Bars in Milwaukee.
  4. Go see a movie, we usually go on Tuesdays because the movies are $5 and you get free popcorn.
  5. Go sledding or tubing.
  6. Play board or cards games.
  7. Attend a local Winter Festival.
  8. Take a cooking class.
  9. Go indoor skydiving.
  10. Have a living room picnic.
  11. Go indoor rock climbing.
  12. Take a yoga class together.
  13. Enjoy a spa day.
  14. Make a romantic candlelight dinner.
  15. Plan your next trip or vacation.
  16. Visit the Ice Castles in Lake Geneva, WI.
  17. Go check out the Mitchell Park Domes.
  18. Go to a sports event, like a Bucks or Admirals game.
  19. Go out and sing Karaoke.
  20. Book a Brewery tour.
  21. Book a local Winery tour.
  22. Do an outdoor photoshoot.
  23. Give each other massages.
  24. Take a dance class.
  25. Sit under the stars with an outdoor fire, cozy up with blankets. Sip on hot cocoa and make s’mores.
  26. Take a bubble bath together.
  27. Go on a carriage ride.
  28. Rent a cabin up north and enjoy a winter getaway.
  29. Visit an indoor trampoline park.
  30. Explore your own city, make it a staycation. Check out all the little stores and stop in local bars and restaurants.
  31. Get dolled up and go out to a brand new restaurant that neither of you have been yet.
  32. Check out an indoor go cart track.
  33. Rent a lux dome and enjoy appetizers and craft cocktails.
  34. Hit the snowmobile trails.
  35. Here is something unique, board a Snow Train. Wisconsin Great Northern Railroad will take you through a winter wonderland and feed you dinner too.

Although not all on the list above will interest you, but you will find a couple ideas. Try them out and you’d be surprised. Enjoy laughing and making memories with one another. Really go out of your way to make an effort to put your relationship first, even in the bluest of times and weather.

*Play a little game, have your significant other pick a number 1-35, and that’s the date idea for the day.

If you think of anything else that would be fun to do for a Winter date idea, comment below. I’d love to know.

Xoxo,

Ambur

Comfy & Chill Valentine’s Day

I love this comfy winter white Valentine’s Day look. This lounge outfit has been on repeat since I bought it.

I took inspiration from Kim Kardashian’s Skims Cozy Knit sets. So when I saw this, I had to have it.

I think it’s perfect for a Netflix & chill kinda date night. Add some chocolates and wine and it sounds like a perfect night to me.

Shop my look here.

For this shoot, it was my first time working with a new photographer Alaxandra from (@TheWildAuthentic on Instagram). I’ll add her website below. She was absolutely amazing to work with. She made me feel super pretty. I let her know my insecurities right away and she went out of her way to make sure I loved all the pictures. I highly recommend calling her and setting up a shoot!!

The Wild Authentic - Photographer 

What’s your idea of the perfect date? Are you a let’s get dolled up and go out kinda of gal or a comfies and chill lady?

I can go in either direction. Stay tuned to my blog, I’ll be posting some dressy and casual Valentine’s outfits for you.

Xoxo,

Ambur

Life is better in slow m-ocean!

December 1st our little family left on a last minute vacation to Playa del Carmen, Mexico.

After a rough few months prior, we decided to escape reality and clear our heads. It’s exactly what we all needed.

We stayed at The Fives in Playa del Carmen. We stayed here once before in 2017, and wanted to come back.

The food was a huge reason for wanting to return. I’m in love with churros and where else can you get good authentic churros? Mexico of course. Mya’s favorite was the chocolate lava cake with ice cream and dad of course loved the brownie and ice cream.

Every restaurant we ate at was so good. The waiters were so polite and gave excellent recommendations. We always left with full bellies. Even Mya (who is a somewhat picky eater) always found something and ate it all.

This trip we really focused on relaxing and spending time together. My husband and I own our own businesses and Mya is a busy lady herself, so hanging out just the three of us was essential. We’ve always traveled with other people or just my husband and I. Mya is only getting older and growing up so fast so this time with her is priceless.

The Fives has so many pools that we wanted to hang out at a new one everyday. Almost all of them had bars super close, which was a bonus.

Since we were all in super chill mode, we decided to skip an excursion and do a spa day instead. I must say it was the best decision we made. Mya had never had a message before so it was perfect. Plus, the spa had an amazing deal, so it was too good to pass up.

With no plans we had the leisure to do whatever we wanted, when we wanted. 

Two of the days we spent down by the ocean. Since we escaped Wisconsin to get ocean therapy we wanted to soak up all the sunshine and the sounds of the beach.

Since 2017, The Fives is a time share resort as well as a all inclusive resort. I did notice that if you weren’t a member the service wasn’t as great. We waited a while for the shuttles to go to back and forth to the beach or restaurants by the beach. I also, felt like there wasn’t enough staff/waiters walking around taking orders. As a bar owner, my biggest pet peeve is when you order a cocktail from someone and it tastes totally different from some one else. And that happened quite a bit with a simple mojito. I know, these are hardly real problems but I wanted to share for anyone looking to go and so they can plan ahead for them.

Pro-tip: we always bring our own cups, usually a yeti 20oz cup to keep our drinks cold and you don’t have to order as often. They generally serve in small plastic cups.

This is what my family needed. We officially booked our family vacation to South Padre Island for May. This is one we go with my whole family. Should be one for the books.

Have you been to South Padre Island? Comment below place we must go or see!

Xoxo,

Ambur

Beautiful Wedding Invitation Designs


This past Thanksgiving my mom got engaged. So let the planning begin. As the oldest daughter (with better taste, I may add lol) I am so excited to help her plan everything from her bridal shower to the wedding.

With planning comes the invites to everything. But I found the perfect company to work with for the most beautiful wedding invitation designs. Basic Invite is completely customizable and are mobile friendly. Being able to upload our own pictures and to chose from over 180 different colors makes them perfect for my mom to choose the perfect invite.

Basic Invite is one of the few websites that allows customers almost an unlimited color options with an instant preview online. You can design the cards exactly how you’d like them by being able to change each color element. You can change anything down to the very last detail. Which sets Basic Invite apart from many other stationary companies.

As of now, my mom isn’t set on the exact style she wants for her wedding. Basic Invite allows customers the ability to order a print sample of their invitation so my mom can see exactly how her invite will look and feel before she places her final order.

Another very neat thing that Basic Invite offers is 40 different color options for your envelopes. I told my mom to have it stand out right away before anyone even opens it. Plus, all the envelopes are peel and seal, so don’t need to spend extra time licking each individual envelope. Who has time for that?

Basic Invite has thought of it all so you don’t have to worry about missing or forgetting anything. Each invite is part of a set. They have all the wedding stationery that you will need from the invitation to the thank you cards afterwards.

To also save my mom time Basic Invite also has a FREE address collection service to request addresses of guests by sharing a link via social media and email. So you collect the addresses and get FREE envelope printing. How cool is that? It beats calling every single person when there is so much more you can focus on.

Browsing BasicInvite.com, the Seal & Send Wedding Invitations caught my moms eye. There are over 30 different designs that are also completely customizable, they also include the ever popular foil options. Seal & Sends the guests names are printed on the front of each invitation so no envelope needed. Then you add postage, fold your invites, and secure them with a sticker. The RSVP postcard is already attached to the invite, guests simply tear off and mail in. Super simple and different.

One stop shopping for sure when it comes to all your wedding stationery. They have thought of everything, which allows you to focus on the most important thing: the food. Just kidding, but it’s one less stress you need to worry about.

You can check there out here. Or visit them on social media @basicinvite.

I love sharing things with my followers that will simplify their lives. Tag me on Instagram @ambur.a.vance with your Basic Invite design, I’d love to see it.

Xoxo,

Ambur

‘Art’ you glad hosting a Painting party is so fun & easy.

Hosting a DIY Wine & Paint party.

I’ve never attended a Wine & Paint party and wanted to host a girls night. I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to kill two birds with one stone and host my very own ‘GNO – Wine & Paint party.’

I went with rainbow theme for the Paint part of the party. I thought it was perfect and easy to do. I’ve also been one to focus on the details, which to me always elevates a party.

They say love is in the details. 

I thought it would be cute to use wine corks as part of the placement cards to tie both wine & paint in. (Thank you Amy, who donated the corks to me.)

How can you have a Wine & Paint party without WINE. I bought many different types. I figured we can sample many of them since there were many of us.

I have never made a charcuterie board before but I thought about what pairs the best with wine, CHEESE.

I thought they turned out amazing a) for not being sponsored and b) never doing one before.

All in all, I received lots of compliments. I love hosting parties. I can’t wait to host my next one. Who knows what it will be, but I’ll share it when I do.

Purchase supplies here. 
Not too bad for not having painted since middle school.

If you decide to host a Wine & Paint party, tag me @ambur.a.vance, I’d love to see. As always have fun with it, add your own style to it.

Xoxo,

Ambur

Perfectly Imperfect

Today’s blog post comes to you as a reminder. A reminder that it’s ok to be perfectly imperfect, we are after all human.

I also, wanted to share with you that everything you see on social media is often a misinterpretation of actual life. People do a good job of only posting the positive and good in their lives.

Short story: My husband and I owned a business with our (now ex) best friends. After losing my brother-in-law literally the day after we signed our lease we had to push forward with the business. Shortly after, things started to take a turn for the worst in our friendship. They didn’t care about the huge loss our family suffered from. They were blaming my husband and I for everything with the business. Call us names, attacking our character, and talking about us behind our backs.

It took me a year to realize they had a toxic relationship amongst themselves and tried to take it out on us.

Mr. will post on FB daily positivity videos and only care about the view count. Mrs. plans trips with friends A) that she talk crap about B) so she can make money off of them. It’s sad to see. They have become so greedy and unrecognizable. They have a house addition that has been a few years in the making and a vacation house that they said they bought when it’s really Mr.’s parents. Why do I mention this? Well because; more then money, they care about perception and attention. They want you to see them one way, as perfect. That they don’t make mistakes. Which has got to be hard and so exhausting. No thank you.

The silver lining is they set a daily example of how I do NOT ever want to be.

I want to elaborate on the perfectly imperfect part of this blog post. When I decided I wanted to start blogging, I had so much self doubt. After researching for months, I kept telling myself – I’m too old, I’m overweight, I’m not pretty enough, or that I’m too shy. But then I realized that’s what makes me, ME.

You’ll always have people who like you and people who don’t, that’s just life. When I started this journey, it wasn’t about what other people thought. It was about me and doing what I love.

I enjoy doing photo shoots to get content for my blog and IG. But again, I critique the heck out of them. Like do I look fat, or how many chins do I have?? Then I have to remind myself it’s ok to be perfectly imperfect.

At the end of the day, I have an amazing family, loving friends, and a sexy husband who loves me for me. Nothing else matters. So, I will always try to keep it real with my following, and stick to being authentic with a hint of Facetune lol.

Lastly, as hard as it is don’t beat yourself up. Be yourself! That is your greatest power. You don’t have to impress people by being fake. If they don’t love you for you, then they don’t need to be in your life. Perfection is impossible to achieve, and that’s ok.

Dolls, do whatever you can to follow your dreams!

Xoxo,

Ambur

Give em Pumpkin to Talk About…

I’m not sure about you but I love fall & fall fashion, I’ve mentioned it in previous blog posts. I love to celebrate fall until Thanksgiving, then I switch gears to Christmas.

I love this fall outfit. I am wearing a Ribbed open-shoulder sweater in the rust color from Forever 21. Can you believe that it’s under $20?

My jeans are a distressed jegging from Closet Candy Boutique from last year. But I linked a black distressed pair that will work just as well, and they are only $20!!

I accessorized this outfit with a black felt floppy hat and a pair of super cute short rain boots with a bow detail. This $3 necklace adds a little sparkle to complete my outfit.

Since in Wisconsin we did get our first measure-able snow fall the night before these pictures (10/29/19) I brought a suede army green Moto jacket and a neutral scarf to throw on top, since it was chilly.

Shop my look here. I always try to keep my outfits very affordable for my followers.

These pictures we’re taken at Cedarburg Creek Farm where they offer so many fun fall activities like: a petting zoo, pumpkin farm, Free hayrides, corn maze, and more. It’s a fun family friendly place right off HWY 60 in Cedarburg.

Did you make it to a pumpkin farm this year? Did you carve any pumpkins?

Secret of mine… I’ve never ever tried a PSL!!! Crazy, I know. Maybe this will be the year?!?

Xoxo,

Ambur

Haiti Mama Jewelry

As an influencer, I try to find fun and affordable fashion. I also, love clothing and accessories that have an amazing cause to support.

•Shopping + supporting a great cause = my jam!

I was introduced to Haiti Mama jewelry line from a friend who travels to Haiti frequently for mission trips. It’s fun to watch her love and passion for this mission show in her pictures and connection with the children. I’m so inspired by her.

Haiti Mama’s mission is simple: Reunite. Rehabilitate. Restore. Haiti Mama works to reunite homeless youth in Haiti with their families, building alternative solutions to institutional care of children. They believe in rehabilitating parents through employment and restoring hope by empowering families.

Job creation is a vital part of the family reunification process! Haiti Mama just launched a gorgeous new line of earrings. Textures of Haiti lightweight tin earrings feature authentic photography of the beautiful island of Haiti. They are designed and cut by Mama Andy and Papa Milo in Haiti. Each pair comes with a postcard that has the full image of the jewelry selected.

My specific earrings come from the Kenscoff Collection. Kenscoff is a city in the mountains outside of Port Au Prince. I am obsessed with these earrings and prints or theee reasons 1) for the cause 2) they look so tropical and 3) super light weight.

Since many of the designs are based on landscape, culture, and art the variety is endless. Check out Haiti Mama on Instagram. Tag me in your pictures when you rock your Haiti Mama jewelry.

Xoxo,

Ambur

5 tips to Spice up your Marriage.

My husband and I have been married almost 8 years but have been together 13. Over time you need to put work into your relationship.

I made a list of 5 things you can do to spice up your relationship without making it feel like work.

Your marriage is one of the most important relationships of your life. So, if your marriage is suffering everything else around you seems to suffer.

It’s crucial to take time to nurture your relationship, it’s important to make each other feel loved. Read this and try them out. Ladies, these tips are for you, but men you can do the same. It takes two to tango.

5 tips to Spice up your Marriage.

1) Send him a text – Sometimes it’s a sexy picture, other times it’s a text letting him know you appreciate him. Either way it shows you are thinking of him. Sending him a sexy picture while he’s working is a cute little tease to remind him what he comes home too.

2) Ditch the sweats – When you go to bed wear something sexy. Even if you have kids it’s ok, throw a robe on. Here in Wisconsin, it gets cold but that gives you more reason to snuggle not to put more on.

3) Shower Date – Being vulnerable with your bodies will provide a great connection. This is one of my favorite dates. You escape from T.V.s and cell phones. It’s just you two making it steamy.

4) PDA – So don’t be that couple that needs to get a room but hold hands, kiss each other, touch his butt. Let everyone around you know you’re in to each other. It’s romantic. If you go out to dinner play footsie. Have fun with it.

5) Communication – Cliché, I know but for real. You need to talk about likes/dislikes in the bedroom. Share your fantasies with each other. Try them out. Be open minded and non-judgmental. He’s your husband, you don’t need to be shy or embarrassed.

Remember when you first met? You have all those feelings and butterflies, well that doesn’t need to stop. Time should only make you feel more comfortable in your relationship.

I hope that you try these out. Put an effort into your marriage. My best marriage tip of all: if you have to fight, fight naked! I hope that put a smile on your face. Good luck babe!

Xoxo,

Ambur